Re: mobile video or wheels?
I agree - go with the Video. I have two little ones and it is invaluable on long trips. The only downside is that they want to watch it every time you get in the car. It's tough having to listen to "Elmo in Grouchland" every morning on the way to work, when I'd rather be blasting the satellite radio!
I'll never understand paying $2500 for new wheels, when the ones that came on the Jeep are pretty sharp-looking, and the upgrade is purely asthetic (in most cases). I'd get the video, then use the extra money to go on a nice road trip to Disneyworld. You're kids will be entertained the entire trip!