Your code should be PXR , brilliant black crystal pearlcoat. This color has been around since 2003. According to Jeep's website , this is the only black offered on 09 Commanders. Chrysler has other blacks though, the most popular being PXB , which is a solid black (no metallic flake). I dont know if they made any Commanders prior to 09 that had other black codes on them. I'm sure someone on this forum has a solid black Commander. They will pipe in and let you know. When you buy a new grille from Jeep, it will probably have to be painted. Chrysler usually doesn't offer parts by color code, but there is always a first time. Confirm you color code and maybe you can find a used one that is the same color. It shouldnt be very expensive to have one painted.