Join Date: Mar 2010
Location: Northwest IL
Own a Commander?: Yes
Model year: 2006
Trim Package: Limited
Power-Train: 5.7L V-8 Hemi
If 4WD - system: QD-II
Current Mileage: 57200
I purchased the exact vehicle you are describing about 1 month ago. The only thing different from your list of wants is the color.
I used Autotrader, KBB Used vehicle listings, and cars.com, to find one. Most of these sites have advanced search criteria that allow you to single out some options.
My criteria included 2007 and newer, V8, and leather.
My specific purchase was as follows:
2007 XK Sport Red Rock Crystal Pearl
4.7 flex fuel
factory remote start
Asking price $18,695
The Commanders are out there. The dealership where I purchased mine had another one with similar options but with 55,000 miles for $17,500 in white. I am in northern IL. I traveled about 1 1/2 hours to the Chicago burbs to get mine.