Is there any way you can slide something like a small putty knife (or 2) in the crack of the drum/rotor to force the shoes past the grove? If you are replacing the drum/rotor - you can get pretty rough with it
May need a torch to cut it off, cut at bottom away from the caliper/ hydraulics. You may need a new set of brake springs.
Might be time for a brake shop with good tools.
Might be time for a brake shop with good tools.